Honey-Mustard Chicken & Home Fries

Chicken nuggets and french fries don't qualify as health food, but that doesn't stop my kids from craving them. However, this meal is an easy, tasty, healthy & inexpensive alternative to a trip to McDonald's.

Home Fries

• Baking potatoes, or sweet potatoes
• A drizzle of olive oil
• Mrs. Dash
• Pepper

Wash potatoes and cut into wedges. Drizzle with a little bit of oil (enough to get the spices to stick.) Sprinkle with pepper and Mrs. Dash, and toss. I like to toss it in a plastic container with a lid.

Spray a cookie sheet with oil and spread wedges on the sheet. 

Bake at 425 degrees for 1 hour.

The fries are very low in fat, low in sodium and high in magical deliciousness. My kids repeatedly tell me that they like them better than restaurant fries. 

The kids like to dip the regular potato fries in ketchup or fry sauce, but the sweet potato fries don't need anything more - They are heavenly.

Honey-Mustard Chicken

• Chicken Breast
• Honey Mustard
• Bread Crumbs 
• A few Tbsp olive oil

These breasts were a little thick, so I cut them down the middle (lengthwise) to make them thinner & easier to cook. Pat the chicken dry and brush one side with honey-mustard. Dip the honey-mustard side in bread crumbs and then coat the other side with honey-mustard and crumbs. 

Heat oil in a frying pan on medium heat. Use just enough oil to thinly cover the bottom of the pan. Then cook the chicken on each side until done (about 5 minutes each side). Cut into the center of each piece to check that it has thoroughly cooked.

The chicken is very lightly breaded and fried, so this is much healthier alternative to fried chicken. The honey-mustard and breading lock in the juices and give the chicken a great flavor. 

I hope your family enjoys this meal as much as mine.

*Final Note: This post would not be complete without acknowledging a fantastic gift that my husband gave me for Christmas - A New Oven!!!  You have to understand that for the last 6 years, I have been cooking for my family of 7 people on a twenty-year-old stove that had 3 itty-bitty burners and only 1 large one - which had an electrical short in it, and would unpredictably ramp up to scalding high heat and burn whatever was on it without warning!

I am now in cooking HEAVEN!!! 
Thank you, sweetheart!

Separation Anxiety

This is a new one for us. When our kids were very small (infant to toddler age) they experienced a little bit of separation anxiety when being left with a babysitter or in the nursery, but we've been in new territory for the last two weeks.

It's Max.

The last night of the Christmas break, we were watching a video as a family and Max came snuggling up to me on the couch. This was not unusual. But then he seemed to be focusing totally on me instead of the show, and he kept giving me hugs and kissing my cheeks, until I asked, "What's goin' on with you bud?" "Nothing," he said, "I just love you a lot."

Well the next morning it was back to school time and I think he accidentally-on-purpose left his backpack sitting on the living room floor while I was buckling Jared for the ride to school.

The kids had jumped out of the van to go into the school, when Max came running back and said,  "Mom, I forgot my backpack." I thought he'd just left it in the back of the van, but he said he'd left it at home. He was crying and having an unusually emotional reaction to this. After a few minutes of wiping tears and calming him down, I explained that I would bring the backpack before the end of school, so he'd have it in time to turn in his homework, and collect his papers for the day. He seemed calm when he left the van the second time, but as I drove home, I got a call from the school secretary. Max had gone to her desk sobbing. He told her that she needed to call me and tell me that I needed to come get him and just take him home.

I spoke to Max on the phone and he could hardly speak, he was sobbing without restraint. He kept saying, "I just want to go home!" Well, the sweet secretary recognized that he was having some separation anxiety - which apparently is not uncommon for young kids after the Christmas break. She talked with me a few minutes. I had come to the same conclusion, but it was nice to have it confirmed by someone who'd seen it before. I had a very strong feeling that if I brought him home, it would extend the problem and make it worse. So, I was very grateful for the secretary's help in calming him and walking him to class.

Sometimes I think one of the hardest things that parents have to do is  DO NOTHING! Don't you just want to take action? To make it better? I felt guilty for leaving my crying child in the care of someone else, when I could easily turn the car around. But I'm still convinced that rushing to his teary pleas would have been the WRONG thing to do.

So, I went home and spent the next three hours worrying and thinking about him. Where did this come from? Is it because he's one of the youngest in his grade? Though he's LOVED school this year and done very well academically and socially. Is it because his Dad is traveling so much and the thought of being separated from Mom too created a sense of panic? Hmmm. Is there some kind of trouble at school?

I went to the school early with his backpack in hand. The secretary took it from me and asked if she could walk it to his class, because she was concerned about him seeing me. And then I waited for the parade of kindergartners to file out of the school doors.

Max came out like any other day. After a hug 'Hello,' we started talking.

What was going on this morning, Buddy? Is everything all right with your friends?
        Yah, we had fun today.
Is anyone being mean to you?
        No, no one's being mean. 
Are things all right with your teacher?
        Yep.
She's being nice?
        Yep.
Well, what was going on this morning? Is there anything at school that makes you feel worried or afraid?
        No,  I just wanted to be home. We had a lot of fun during the break, and I just really wanted be home with you.
(Oh, how sweet is that!?) Okay.... Well... it IS time to get back to school now, but we can still have fun together. School is really important, Max, and I'm so proud of the good work that you do at school. It's only for three hours a day, that's not very long to be apart.
       Okay.
Did you have a good rest of the day?
       The morning was hard, but the rest of the day was good.
Good.

I thought Tuesday went well. Wrong.
Wednesday at 10 am I got a call from his teacher.

"Max, is really having a hard time being back at school. He's been crying each day, and now he's having a hard time doing his work. I made a deal with him that if he could talk to you for a few minutes on the phone, then he would get back to work."

Max and I talked. He finished the last hour of school all right.
We talked some more after school.

Me: Max, I miss being with you too. Would it help you if we made a plan to have some Mom-and-Max-Time after school each day, and then when you feel upset about being away from home, you can remember that we're going to have some fun together and then concentrate on your work?
Max: (nodding) Yah, I think that would help.

We made a list of things to do.

• coloring/painting
• playing board games
• watching a video
• going to lunch
• going to the fitness center
• reading together
• going sledding

Each morning he's picked something from the list of Mom-and-Max time and it's helped. He struggled the next Monday, I think it's because it was just after the weekend. Once last week, we forgot to pick something in the morning and he had a tearful meltdown, and we had to have another talk on the phone. Last Thursday after school, I got a 'thumbs-up' from his teacher that he was doing much better.

I was a little nervous about school today after the long weekend, but he picked a Mom-and-Max activity this morning and had a great day at school today. YEAH!!!

I asked him if he's feeling better about being back at school again. He said "Yes."

Whew! I hope the transition to first grade in the fall goes more smoothly - in truth, I have separation anxiety when the kids go to first grade. I miss them terribly. Hopefully this experience has given me a good plan for helping both of us make that transition.

Let's Talk Laundry!

Let's face it, the biggest complaint I hear from Moms is, 
"The laundry is a BEAST!"


THE GOALS:

• Reduce the workload for Mom (less washing and ironing.)
• CONVENIENTLY push more responsibility back onto the other family members.
• Rid the house of laundry clutter: No piles of dirty laundry on the floor, OR piles of clean laundry on the couch or bed. 

Our laundry system has evolved over many years, but I'm feeling pretty good about the way things are working now, so I hope that you find an idea or two to help tame the laundry beast at your house.

RULE #1:  If it looks clean and it smells clean, then it is clean!

With kids who wear uniforms to school, we go through multiple outfits every day, and everything isn't dirty after one use. I've also read that washing machines can be harder on clothes than the wearing them, so less unnecessary washing means that clothes fade less and last longer.

My kids have been well rehearsed in this rule, and when they clean their rooms, they're expected to hang the clean clothes and put the dirty ones in their laundry baskets.

Tip #1: Keep a laundry basket in each bedroom. 

Jared insisted on posing with his laundry basket
- he kept stepping in front of the camera and saying, "Teese!"

Ideally, keep a laundry basket in each closet where it's out of sight and easy to use. I got this tip from my mother-in-law. It naturally leads to tip #2

Tip #2: Everyone is responsible for sorting their own laundry and taking empty hangers to the laundry room. 

My kids learn to sort laundry around age 3. It's good for them! They develop those preschool sorting skills and it reinforces their understanding of colors and the concepts of light and dark.

Tip #3: Have laundry baskets for lights and darks in the laundry room.

They can't sort the laundry if they don't have a place to put it. So, I have two baskets for sorting; The whites go in the white basket, and the colors go in the blue basket. I also have an old set of wire shelves that we use for hanging empty hangers.

I've taught my older three kids how to use the washer and dryer, and I have them rotate loads on occasion. But for now, I take responsibility for cleaning the clothes. To reduce ironing work and prevent piles of clean clothes everywhere, I take care of the laundry right out of the dryer and...

Tip #4: Hang & fold everything right out of the dryer.

Tip #4b: Folded towels, sheets, dish-cloths, etc. go into another basket on top of the dryer, whose sole purpose is to collect clean clothes and help me put them away easily. (This is also a good 'laundry helper' job.) The rest of the clothing gets put into my FAVORITE TIP... 

Tip #5: Laundry Drawers!

I discovered this from magazine I read three years ago, and I LOVE IT! I bought two sets of these plastic, 3-drawer units from Walmart (about $15 each.) I lashed them together with heavy duty packing tape, and labeled a drawer for each member of the family. As I fold underwear, pajamas, swimsuits, socks or anything you keep in bedroom drawers, the items go into that persons laundry drawer. *These drawers are also AWESOME for all the little treasures that you find in peoples pockets! Or for a stray belt or shoe or whatever that ends up in the laundry by mistake.  

When kids say, "Mom, I'm out of underwear." I get to say, "Did you check your laundry drawer?" They're so used to this response,  that if they run out of anything, they just go check the drawer themselves. *It's their cue that its time to collect their clean clothes and put them away.

The previous owners of our house installed this clothes rack, but I've used a variety of racks for this purpose.  All pants, shirts and skirts are hung immediately and I even made little dividers out of poster board to sort the clothes as I go.


The laundry drawers and hanging rack accomplish one beautiful thing...

Tip #6: Everyone is responsible for collecting their clean clothes and putting them away! 

That's something I've always hated about doing the laundry... the endless marathon of running clothes to ten different closets and dressers ~ ugh! Once or twice a week, I'll call everyone to the laundry room to collect their hanging clothes and laundry drawers. Then they return their emptied drawer to the 'dresser.' 

One last tip...

Tip #7: The sock basket.

Socks are still one unruly member of the laundry process, because matches don't always end up in the same load. So, as I'm folding & hanging things from the dryer I just throw all of the socks into a basket, and then match them and put them in drawers once or twice a week. (Actually, sock matching is a 'laundry helper' job. I supervise.) Then the socks go into each laundry drawer. 

There you have it - a ridiculous amount of information about the taming of our laundry beast.  I realize that some people may think there's an awful lot of 'stuff' in this process, but we have an awful lot of laundry. 

All told, my family of 7 uses 7 laundry baskets (4 in the bedrooms & 3 in the laundry room), 6 plastic drawers, 2 hanging racks (1 for clothes & 1 for empty hangers,) and a small basket for socks. 

The laundry chaos in my house without these tools is terrifying, and I love, LOVE, LOVE how they keep us organized and tame the BEAST!

I Will Go...

There seems to be a theme this week. First, my friend Jessie posted a sacrament meeting talk she gave about submitting our will to the will of God and then the concept kept popping up all week.

The sacrament meeting topic for today was about honoring and sustaining our local and general priesthood leaders, but what stood out about the last talk was submitting our will to God.

The speaker told a story about young Joseph F. Smith and how he was in the process of earning a large homestead for his family and needed to work the land for just one more year. The prophet Brigham Young met with young Bro. Smith and told him that the Lord needed him to leave the country to serve as a full-time missionary. Bro. Smith didn't even tell Pres. Young about his circumstances. There was no plea to wait for just one year.  Bro. Smith just prepared for the mission and left.

And he lost the homestead.

Now, we know the end from the beginning. I don't think that we can even keep track of the number of converts who joined the church (and their descendants) as a result of this man's MANY missions and service in the churhc. Bro. Smith eventually became Pres. Joseph F. Smith, prophet of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

I suppose we could say, "Those were just the times! People made unbelievable sacrifices in the early days of the church. It was just what they did. It was necessary in those early days."

But I sat there in church thinking, "What would I have done?" In truth, I'm pretty sure I would have MENTIONED the year left on the homestead. Maybe a, "Are you SURE I'm supposed to go NOW, President?" would have slipped into the conversation too.

Is this I-will-go attitude what makes someone worthy to be a prophet? That willingness to do whatever the Lord asks without worrying about the consequences, because your faith is so strong that you just know everything will eventually work out in the end EVEN if it doesn't work out the way you had hoped or planned.

I worry that I'm more like Zacharias, father of John the Baptist, (who we also talked about at church today.) The older Zacharias was told that he and his wife would have a son,  and his thought was, "Well, I don't see how is THAT going to work?" And he was struck dumb until the Lord's will came to pass.

I would like to be more like Mary, mother of Christ, who said, "Behold the handmaid of the Lord; be it unto me according to thy words." Though she did ask "how SHALL this be," but I guess the SHALL shows her faith in the question. SHALL seems to say, "I believe what you've said, will you please explain it to me a bit."

These words seemed to jump from the scripture pages to me today,
"For with God nothing shall be impossible."

It reminded me of a song my father often sang when I was younger.
"For with God, nothing is impossible,
but you must reach and take his hand...
With Him, nothing is impossible,
those who have ears to hear will understand...
The blind could see....
The lame man could walk away...
And lives were changed from night today
When they know that someone cares."

I think that's were my faith is rooted. I do believe that God cares about me. I KNOW He loves us. We ARE his children, and as such He wants our joy. The scriptures even say that's His goal.

So if he asks us to do something, it must be calculated for our ULTIMATE JOY (eternal and not necessarily temporal.) I think it's the faith and trust and even experience I've had of His love that gives me the strength to say, "Thy will be done."

I don't know if the theme this week means that hard things are around the corner for us, and I will need to exercise more faith, or if I just need to work toward a more humble and faith-filled attitude in general. I just kept thinking, "Who am I? And who am I working to become? A Joseph? A Zacharias? Or a Mary?"

The Blogger's Resolution

Shame on me! 

I blogged a total of 10 times in 2010. sigh. 

And I had this profound thought, "If I’m going to create a blog, I should actually.... 

BLOG!"

Shocking concept for me, but it’s true. 

I’m tired of feeling guilty about not blogging, and I miss using it as an outlet for my thoughts too. After months of reading my friends wonderful blogs, I realized that there is a lot more I could be doing with this one. 

I’ve limited my blogging possibilities to cute-funny stories about my cute-funny kids and about our hectic and sometimes humorous life. If it wasn’t funny, I didn’t think anyone would want to read it. But life isn’t always hilarious, and there’s a lot more on my mind that I’d like to share.

So, I’m taking pages from some of my creative friends books and launching out on a new blogging campaign. (*A note of thanks to Jessie, Nancy, & Krista.)

Introducing the New and Improved Blogging Bylaws for  Candace:

Bylaw 1: Blog each day for 30 minutes or less (I should be able to eek out a 1/2 hour of blogging without hurting or neglecting my family.) This time limit is crucial for me or this won’t happen.

Bylaw 2: Blog with a purpose. Share what’s good. Share what’s important.

I’ve even organized a series of themes for the week to help me fulfill this bylaw. 
The daily themes are as follows...

• Sacred Sabbath - Spiritual insights or thoughts, FHE ideas, scripture study ideas, anything gospel related.  

• Home-Making Monday - organizing time, organizing the house, the car, the kids, the laundry, managing the money, or decorating and beautifying our home. 

• Parenting Tuesday - parenting books, ideas, teaching tools that are working for us, parenting struggles that we’re working to overcome. 

• What’s Cooking Wednesday - Recipes, cooking techniques, tips, & tools.

• Thoughtful Thursday - “Reader’s Corner,” or whatever is on my mind that I need to share with my friends *This is often a discussion post, and comments are highly valued.

• Family Friday - The goings-on of our hectic, crazy, hilarious & wonderful, fun-filled family life. 

• Stylin’ Saturday - Family and personal fitness, favorite beauty products (make-up, skin-care, hygiene, etc.), hairstyles (kids & adult), fun fashion finds (kids & adults.)

This blog entry happens to fit under the “Thoughtful Thursday” category, but we’re just gonna roll with it. ;D

Christmas 2010

Most Memorable Holiday Activity

Lauren: "It was being with my family and opening presents on Christmas. I just liked it."

Zach: Playing "Silent Ball" with all the family in St. George. "I didn't win, but I had fun."

Gabe: "Going to Grandma Hunny's house for soup and making gingerbread houses. I just really loved that soup!" *In fact, I don't think he did any gingerbread-house making, but he did have 3 bowls of soup!

Max: "Playing laser tag with my family, because I 'get' people a lot, and it really is fun!"

Jared: Loved the piñata at the Christmas Eve party. He really got into it this year - both hitting it and collecting the candy. Big fun for a little guy!

Matt: "I think it was Christmas morning, opening presents. Sorry to be so generic, but that was fun for me this year. I loved watching the kids open their presents." 

Candace: "Family Time! I just loved all the activities that we did together: the gingerbread houses, nativity, Christmas Eve party, the day at the planetarium and temple square... and the New Year's Eve Party." 

From the mind of Max

Okay, anyone who has a conversation with Max knows that he's hilarious. These are just a few of the conversations we've had this week...

SAFE!
Several of Max's friends have been asking to play with him outside of school, but since I don't know their families, I told him that he can't go anywhere unless I know that the parents and the home are safe. Well, apparently Max told his friends about this rule. So, when I picked him up from school on Tuesday he jumped into the van and announced, "MOM, Jenna told me to tell you that her Mom is SAFE!" and then he collapsed into his seat, like "That just takes care of the whole problem!" 

WORKIN' MAN
I let Jared have a taste of 24 oz strawberry banana shake as we drove in the car. I thought, "This shake is really thick, and the lid and straw are really well sealed, I think he'll be fine for a minute." WRONG!!!!
He THREW the shake at the window of the van. It was everywhere!!! The window seam, the carpet, on his seat, under the seat, on the running board and the into the wheel well where the door rolls open and shut.
NIGHTMARE MESS!!!
Max was my awesome helper. He fetched paper towels, ran Jared's clothes to the laundry and used his little arm to clean in the tight spaces.
I  LOVE HIM!
We finish and I say, "Max, go wash your hands now, okay."
Max: "Wash my hands??? Oh yah, 'cuz I'm feelin' a LOT of dirty work!"

YES, SENSAI!
Max:     Mom, why don't you let us take Karate lessons?
Me:      Well, we looked into it, but in order for all four kids to take lessons, it would cost $400 a month and that's just to expensive with all the other things you guys participate in.
(The wheels in his brain turn for approximately 2 seconds...)
Max:    Hmm.... Well, what if just ONE boy took lessons and then taught everyone else?
Me:      And were you thinking that boy would be YOUUU?
Max:    Yah.... Then I could go to Karate, and I would come home and teach my brothers everything! I'd be a.... Karate teacher!
(and then in 2 seconds more it was as though his idea became a reality)
Max:  (Nodding Matter-of-factly) Yah. I'm a karate teacher.

Lauren's Poetry

I attended Lauren's Dance Festival and Author's Fair today - I always enjoy this visit to the school. I really liked the book of poetry Lauren made this year, so I'm reprinting some of her poetry here.
Well done, sweet girl!

Wonderings

I do not understand:

Why girls like girly stuff.

Why sweets must taste so good.

Why math is sometimes hard.

But most of all I do not understand Popularity.

It's useless!

The person who invented popularity must have been sad.

Popularity makes one person famous and the rest feel bad about themselves.

I do understand:

Chocolate is delicious.

Telling a few delightful lies

Today, I wish I were not so normal...

I came from a different planet,

I'm not from earth.

I have many different powers.

I'm the best monster genius in the world.

If someone tries to tell me I'm wrong,

their words backfire on them.

Ticked Off

I'm ticked off.

Not snappy ticked-off,

Not angry ticked-off,

But bothered ticked-off,

Ticked-off that girls don't like monsters,

Ticked-off that my ideas only work with boys.

Smart

I'm Smart

Not nerdy smart.

Not smart-aleck smart.

Not brainiac smart.

But smart that correct spelling is important.

Smart that science is awesome.

Smart that intelligence is helpful.

I'm sad

Not crying sad.

Not tearful sad.

Not feeling bad sad,

but mournful sad.

Sad that my great grandmother is dead.

Sad that all my fish are dead.

Diamonte Poem

Dumb

Dummyhead, fool

Dim-witting, slowing, losing

Dum-dum, dumbo, sharp, bright

Clevering, brightening, thinking

Keen, intelligent

Smart

I Like

I like Halloween.

I like chocolate.

I like cake.

I like frosting.

I like Pirates of the Caribbean.

I like animals.

I like scary stuff.

I like Holidays.

I like fishing.

I like sports.

What's in a Name?

Lightning

Awesome

Unusual

Ruler

Excellent

Nice

Dumbo-or-die-in-3-days

We just arrived home from our 6-day-whirl-wind-trip to St. George & California.
Highs & Lows of the Trip:


Saturday: I completed my first triathlon and still felt well enough to go on a five mile bike ride with the family. Woo-hoo! Of course, I was eating humble pie when I couldn't get my biking shoe unclipped fast enough and took a humiliating spill on the trail. (I can't even photograph the bruises - they're in equally embarrassing places.) Max was pedaling his heart out for the first 4 1/2 miles of the bike ride. For a kid who just learned to ride without trainging wheels, he was amazing! But he came to an abrupt stop on the last 1/2 mile of the trail and it took three adults to get him home. I hadn't uttered one word of complaint he just hit a 'wall' and couldn't move another foot. He couldn't seem to recover. That night we drove to California for our Disney trip, and in the middle of the night Max developed a fever and was throwing up. Poor sweet boy!

Sunday: Church and driving forever...


Monday morning - our first day of Disney - torrential downpour! But it cleared by 11 am and Max had some extra rest and medication and wanted to brave the park. Obviously we slowed our touring pace a bit and made sure to break each afternoon for a nap at the hotel, but it turned out to be a good first day.


Tuesday: My favorite part was shutting down the park with my roller-coaster-riding-buddies, Lauren & Gabe, as the fireworks burst over our heads as though the show had been specially planned for us! Lauren develops a fever and terrible cough that night. Our fun is not going as planned. :-S

Wednesday: Max jumps out of his seat at the end of star tours and yells, "THAT WAS AWESOME!!!" The woman sitting in front of us turned around laughing and said, "That's what it's all about, right there."
More fun at Disney and then Matt catches the virus, sigh... :-(

Thursday: I'm driving home, and all is quiet in the car when 
Zach suddenly says "Mom, you know what I love best about you?"  
Me: "What?" 
Zach: "Everything... you're awesome." 
(Be still my heart! I'm still swooning over that one.)


Well we're home... I'm sure we infected the entire theme park... maybe next time will be better.

2010 March Milestones

Matt: Walgreen's has signed on as the newest client in Matt's business. He's still working very long hours (I don't think he's slept in the last two days,) but when he surfaced this evening he said, "I REALLY like my job. I like the people I work with. I like what we're doing - the variety. I know I'm insanely busy, but I just really like my job." He's been trying to work ahead because we're taking the kids to Disneyland for Spring Break. Woohoo! He ran in his first 5K -  as part of his scouting with the Young Men. They've also been collecting for scouting for food and working on two fund raisers for camps this summer. He's also lost a total of 22 pounds since January. My husband is amazing!

Lauren just pulled out her own tooth - a baby molar. So fun to watch a child go from the panic and fear of a pulling their first loose tooth, to just yankin' it out themselves like it's no big deal. She participated in the Regional Science and Engineering Fair, and though she didn't receive an award at this fair, she was gracious and cheerful and we are SO proud of her. I'm also thrilled that she's started changing Jared's diapers whenever she notices he needs one - love that girl!

Zach received his wolf award and 5 arrow points in Scouting. Great job, buddy! He's being spotlighted in class this week as the "Fantastic Kid" and he's been making some new friends. He's had to deal with some bullies at school, but I think he's handle things really well and the problems have been resolved. (of course, Mom had to speak to the principal, and volunteered for recess duty, and she's kind of sorry for making those 2 boys cry.)

Candace played private eye and had a stake out of the school playground to see what was happening to Zach. I decided to do some extra volunteering and strengthen ties with the powers that be so the problems would stop - it seems to be working. I've been training for the beginner triathlon held this weekend in St. George (200 meters swimming, 5 miles biking, 1.5 miles running.) I'm so excited! I've had fun training and I hope to do a few more of these with my sister this year. I've had fun planning our Disney trip and I can't tell who's more excited about going, Matt & I or the kids. Of course, I'll have to blog about it. :D

Gabe has been so cheerful, and kind, and obedient and helpful this month! He will see something that needs to be done and then do it without being asked. When he finished a chore, he reported back and asked, "What can I do next?" If he asks for something and the answer is "no" he CHEERFULLY accepts it. Gabe has been awesome! He had his first spring soccer game tonight and had a lot of fun. And since our family has been walking to gear up for Disneyland, Gabe has proven to be an incredible runner. This 6 year old can run over a mile in flash. Go GABE!

Max REALLY wants the weather to warm up so we can go swimming. He's anxious for summer so his brother's and sister will be at home to play. He's learned to ride a two wheel bike with no help, and he's loving it. He asks to go riding around the church every day. Great job, Max!

Jared can finally go DOWN the stairs...and up... and down... and up... and down... It's like he's thinking that line from Shrek, "I've mastered the stairs. I'm the stair-master!" He has to bounce or dance WHENEVER he hears music. He's turning into a big flirt and likes to lean forward until his new friend gives him a kiss on the forehead. He's OBSESSED with going outside. We've even heard him say, "go out!" He's still charming us silly.

Dealing with Disappointment

The Regional Science Fair was held yesterday.

9:30 - 11:00 .... Judging
11:00 - 12:00 ... Presentation by Apollo 13 commander Jim Lovell
12:00 - 2:00 ..... lunch and science activities
2:00 - 3:00 ....... Break down displays
3:00 - 5:00 ....... Awards Ceremony

It was a long day filled with high hopes for recognition and glory at the awards ceremony...

But there was none.

When the grand champions were finally announced and Lauren realized that she would not be receiving any awards at this fair, she shed exactly two silent tears (which were quickly wiped) and you could see the wheels turn in her head a she seemed to come to a decision that she would applaud for the winners anyway. She was silent on the bus ride across campus, and I worried about what the evening would hold for our family. BUT by the time we reached home, she seemed to have passed through her sorrow and was talking and laughing with Max in the back of the van. She was cheerful the rest of the evening with no hint of bitterness or resentment and I had a strange realization...

I'm actually more proud of the way she dealt with disappointment than I would have been if she'd won an award. I'm surprised by how clearly I feel this. It's not a feeling of "sour grapes" or trying to sugar coat the situation. I am sincerely proud of her and thankful for this opportunity.

You have to understand a few things about Lauren - she was a VERY emotional young girl. There were times in the younger grades when she seemed to cry more often than not, and it was a weakness that she really WORKED to overcome. It hasn't been an issue for the past couple of years, but yesterday was a BIG disappointment and I feared BIG drama...

But there was none.

Lauren, I'm so proud of YOU

- proud of who you are, how you've grown, and the way you dealt with disappointment with grace and perspective.

I'm SO proud that you are my daughter!

2010: February Review

I've decided to take a leaf from my friend Nancy's book and do a summary post at the end of each month. Here we go:

Matt & Candace:We celebrated our 15th Wedding Anniversary on February 10th, though it took us a couple of weeks to get to the actual celebrating. We've both been plugging away at Weight Watchers and are each down a pants size - YAY! Matt is SWAMPED with his new business. That's great in many ways, but we really miss him at home. Please keep him in your prayers. His grandmother died on Feb. 23 and by providence he was already flying to California two days later. I joined him a couple of days later to attend the viewing and graveside service. We're really grateful for the opportunity to spend time with his family. The service was beautiful - Little Grandma would love it. Matt's faith in the gospel is so strong, I think it's given him a great sense of peace. The following picture is of Matt's Mom and her siblings at the viewing.

(Barbara, Melodee, Kit, Micheal)

Lauren: WINNER at the school science fair...and then a WINNER at the District Science fair! Way to go, Lauren!!! She'll be presenting her project at the Regional Science and Engineering Fair in March. We are so proud of her hard work.

Zach: Celebrated his 9th Birthday! I can't believe how much he's grown. Zach wanted a family celebration at Trafalga (special thanks to Uncle Joe & Aunt Naomi for that party ;D They gave us a family pass for Christmas - it was perfect!) We had a great day!


Zach's greatest wish is being fulfilled in connection with his birthday. Our family will be getting a Wii (as soon as any exist in Utah) I finally CAVED, though it won't belong exclusively to Zach. This is the joy on their faces at the news...
Gabe: Got another prize from the class treasure box because he's been so quiet and obedient. He got straight A's on his report card and we're so proud of his hard work. At Zach's birthday party, he managed to pull a 3 foot tall Elmo out of a claw game - I'm stilled amazed. As a side note, we'd like to congratulate Gabe on his upcoming marriage. He announced that he plans to marry Princess Leia "in the gold bazookey." (I'm insisting she convert and put more clothes on first.)
Max: Age 4 going on 25. I think that Zach's birthday celebration set him thinking about his own birthday, which is not until the end of July. He keeps saying, "Mom, it's taking SOOOO long for my birthday to come!" He was hoping Christmas or his preschool graduation would get here in the mean time, but no such luck. He had his first black eye (a first for the whole family.) Gabe shoved the ottoman into Max's backside, which shoved Max's face into the fireplace rocks. On another side note, we'd like to express heartfelt appreciation to the legion of guardian angels who frequently prevent blindness and concussions in our home.
Jared: WALKING!!! He'll walk across an entire room when he feels like it, but he's still more interested in speed so he often chooses to crawl. His favorite things to do lately are clap, grin while shaking his head "No," eat disgusting things out of the garbage and give BIG wet slobbery kisses. We ADORE him! His favorite experience this month was going to the Children's Discovery Museum. It's the first time he's been old enough to really PLAY there. He had a blast!
Final note, I think that we're all anxious for Spring to arrive. Let's hope that March will be sunny and warm.

Letter to Lauren

Lauren,

First of all, you are getting more beautiful every day. Such a beauty inside and out!
You've grown so much; I'm simply amazed at the young lady you're becoming.

When Jared was born, you said so passionately, "Mom, I love him so much! I just want to help you do everything for him (dress him, feed him, change his diapers) I really, really love him!"

And then you showed your love by doing all those things again and again. I can think of half a dozen times when I was desperately trying to fix dinner and Jared sat cranky and crying until you came and scooped him into your arms (giving comfort to him & me) and then he calmed right down and fell asleep in your lap.

This Sunday, I was racing to get the boys ready for church while Dad was at meetings. You came upstairs ready to go and I said, "Lauren, will you get Jared dressed?" and you said, "Of course." (And this isn't the first time that's happened.)

When we went hiking, Max had climbed to high and was paralyzed with fear at the thought of coming back down. Without being asked, you hiked up to him and sat down in front of him so he could lean against you as you crab-walked down the face of mountain. It took a long time to travel that way, and you were so patient with him.

In general, you've really worked hard to be more patient with your brothers and more cheerful. Grandma told me when you were golfing in the rain, most of the boys had gotten fed up and just wanted to drive the cart, but you kept playing with a smile.

You conquered your fear of the diving board and super-speed water slides this summer and now you totally enjoy them. I am so proud of you!

You've tried to be more responsible about chores without being reminded. At school, you're compassionate and kind to those who need it most - even your teachers notice it.

You really desire to do what's right. I'm so thankful that you're my beautiful daughter. I love you!

Love, Mom

Blog Name Change

I decided I need to be more cautious with our family blog. I think I was tempting fate by having our last name as part of the blog title. So I've been going through posts to clear out last names, school names, etc.

The new name fits us don't you think? ;D